Congratulations College Graduate! This is an exciting time. It’s time to celebrate and acknowledge this big accomplishment. You are part of a select group of students who crossed the college graduation finish line. There were lots of stops and starts, feelings of stress and overwhelm, things to do, people to connect with, stuff to figure out, and you navigated through it all. Regardless of where or how you landed here, you’re here and I want to applaud the time, energy and effort you put forth to reach this milestone. How are you feeling? Elated? Excited? Uncertain? Fearful? After the celebration is over and you settle into the day to day, what’s your plan for this next chapter in your life?
When it comes to seeing your life unfold as you desire, a plan is necessary. Don’t allow someone or outside circumstances dictate what will unfold in your worklife, in your life. ​

If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. – Jim Rohn

 

If you have a plan, great! If you don’t, here are a few tips to help you get started:

  • First, celebrate this big accomplishment! You’ve worked hard to get here and I’m a firm believer that every accomplishment, small or large, should be acknowledged and celebrated. It’s empowering to look back and see just how far you’ve come.

 

  • Next, set aside some undistracted time to reflect. I suggest putting 1-2 hours per week or more in your calendar, devoted to creating your plan. Remember: this is an inside out job. Self-exploration is key. This is your life. It is up to YOU to figure out what you want, why you want it, where you want to land, what you want to contribute and how to make this happen. Making this commitment is a solid act of self-care.

 

  • After you’ve made a commitment to yourself and set aside some time, grab a pad and a pen/pencil and start stream-of-consciousness writing. This is a form of writing that allows you to release whatever is swirling around in your head and heart about how you’re feeling about where you are at this time.Although graduating from college is a major accomplishment and a huge rush, after all of the excitement dies down, there you are alone with yourself, and it’s time to figure out what your plan is for the next chapter in your life.Challenge yourself to write for 10 minutes. Write whatever comes up, no filters, no judgement, no criticism, no reading it, just write. Don’t let that pen/pencil leave that paper until the time is up. If you don’t know what to write, write, “I don’t know what to write.” Again, whatever comes up, jot it down on paper.Try this form of writing for 3-5 days, better yet, try it for a week to really get a feel for it. Consider this a psychological dump. It’s a great way to get that cyclone of thoughts and emotions out of your head and onto paper. Don’t read it right away, give it about 24 hours. Many who really commit to this process find it to be a very effective way to explore their thoughts and feelings, and uncover some things they may not have been aware of.

 

  • After you engage in this process for a week or so. Ask for some help to sift and sort through what you discovered. Schedule a College Transition Consultation with me. Or, connect with a trusted mentor or friend who doesn’t have an emotional or monetary investment in your choices. It’s really helpful to have a sounding board, someone who will take a neutral stand, who can help you talk this through.

 

  • A next solid step, if you’re not sure what you want to do, is to create a list of things you love to do and are good at. Just brainstorm without any filters. And, write it all down. Writing is very powerful. After you get a good, solid list, prioritize by what gets you the most excited right now to the least excited right now.

 

Take a peek at RobbiCrawford.com where you’ll find a resource hub of freebies and paid services for students and families eager to play the college game better.

Don’t forget to sign up for a College Transition Consultation @ bit.ly/2A3KydM. Let’s discuss your biggest challenge(s) right now and some next steps to get you moving in your desired direction. If you need additional support, we’ll arrange to create a plan tailored to your specific needs.

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