STOP BUILDING A CASE AGAINST YOUR GREATNESS! – BO EASON
Perhaps that dream or interest doesn’t pan out, this happens a lot, but how will we know unless we explore it, be curious about it, experiment with it to see if it’s the right fit for us. In other words, before we’re so quick to dismiss, explore.
Exploration can be costly, but it can also be free. If you have a specific interest or dream job, launch a project and do some research, arrange a field trip; shadow someone – a family member, friend of a family member or someone else who you learn is doing what you think you may want to do; volunteer with a group or organization; apply for internships; take some online courses (there are lots of free, reputable online courses and many with a small price attached), etc. The point is to commit to your discovery process and know that you have a lot of options available to help you explore.
Take full responsibility for sifting and sorting through your options.
Yes, this will take time and it may take some money, but isn’t it better to dive in, be curious, explore and experiment BEFORE you apply and lay out a ton of money?
College is expensive and the process can be overwhelming, especially when you’re not clear about where you’re headed. At least do enough digging to have an opaque vision of where you’d like to land prior to selecting your college of choice.
Maybe college isn’t even part of your equation. Perhaps there’s another way, a way that’s a better fit for you to get where and what you want.
If college is part of your equation, choose consciously. With an upfront strategy, getting accepted, financing college, and successfully navigating those four years can be a lot easier than many students who are in college right now are experiencing without a plan.
Winging it or pushing cruise control after you’re accepted is a great way to get and stay stuck throughout your 4+ years.
When you buy into your process, you own it, this is what being empowered and owning your journey is all about. Your parents love you, want you to be successful and are there to provide all of the support you need, but this is about YOU. Don’t sit back and allow them to do all the work to figure this out for you.
LET YOURSELF BE SILENTLY DRAWN BY THE STRANGE PULL OF WHAT YOU REALLY LOVE. IT WILL NOT LEAD YOU ASTRAY. – RUMI
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YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE, CHOOSE CONSCIOUSLY!